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How to Find Inner Peace – Living from Core Values

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I love to write about how to find inner peace.  This is a peace that proceeds from within to without.  One of my favourite prayers about how one might find inner peace is the universal prayer of Saint Francis of Assisi that reads

 

Lord, make me an instrument of Thy peace;
where there is hatred, let me sow love;
where there is injury, pardon;
where there is doubt, faith;
where there is despair, hope;
where there is darkness, light;
and where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,
grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood, as to understand;
to be loved, as to love;
for it is in giving that we receive,
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

 

All the words of the opening line of this universal prayer are important but for this writer and storyteller the last two words go especially together.  The peace that is referred to in this universal prayer as “thy peace.” This is not a peace that is simply the absence of conflict wherein there is still a tension that has the potential to become less than peaceful.  “Thy Peace” is the peace that passeth understanding.  This means that it is a peace that is beyond the opposite of peace as opposed to that which is not peace.  Moving beyond this tension of opposites is how to find inner peace in a lasting and fulfilling way.  This is the kind of understanding of peace that the logical mind cannot acquire.  The logical mind understands the difference between peace and non-peace.  The logical mind, does not, and cannot comprehend the idea of a peace that is beyond duality or beyond opposites.  This peace that is beyond duality is what St. Francis calls ”

 

Thy Peace

 

This peace is  true peace of mind because within it there is no opposition and thus no tension.  It is a peace that has been attained by harmonising the opposites within oneself.  It is the harmonising of the forces of the unconscious with the consciousness of the ego.  To be made an instrument of they peace is a great invitation and maybe one of the greatest invitations.  To attain to such a state of grace is a great blessing.   I love the invitation from the modern day writer Deepak Chopra in his book How to Know God – The Soul’s Journey into the Mystery of Mysteries where you are invited to become a saint.  Toward the end of this book, that covers the various stages of spiritual development, there is a section called Manual for Saints.  In this section Deepak Chopra writes,

 

Set your intentions high.  Aim to be a saint and a miracle worker.  Why not?  The same laws of nature operate for everyone.  If you know that the goal of inner growth is to acquire mastery, then ask for that mastery as soon as possible.  Once you ask, don’t strain to work wonders, but don’t deny them to yourself, either.  The beginning of mastery is vision;  see the miracles around you and that will make it easier for greater miracles to grow.

 

Paradoxically speaking there is as much arrogance (if that is the right word?) in refusing to become an instrument of thy peace as there is in asking to become such an instrument.  Many ,if not most people, will not see any value in making such a request.  The question here is, which then leads to the quest, is are you going to live the values that you love and to make these values manifest in this world of form for the highest good of all?  When you spend time with your core values and align these with your actions then you do not become so engaged with judging others.  Your focus, is not on what others do or do not do,  but on how you follow the intention to be integral and true to the way that life and love expresses through you.

 

The core values that are spoken about here are universal values.  I am not referring to the limited values that might attach to the idea of family values, American values or the values of the culture that you live in.  At one time slave owning was considered a cultural value.  Female circumcision is considered to be a value in some cultures.  This invitation to alignment with your core values will take you into your deep interiority.  These are what this writer calls your true Desiderata.  These are your true hearts desires.

 

finding inner peace

 

Are you cultivating that deep interiority of your true Desiderata – your list of deep heart core desires?  Or are your desires simply those driven by the marketplace that never last and are cultivated from a never ending sense of enough?  These limited time space values are values that will not take you into a peace that passeth understanding which is the real inner peace and true peace of mind.  Political  and business leaders talk a lot about adding value.  The real value that is added to you is a paradox.  It is not so much added as is revealed.  The more deeply you align with the interior values of the heart the more expansive you reveal yourself to be.  This alignment is how to find inner peace.   The beginning, as with all beginnings, is intention.  Do you intend, and are you intending, to be true to thine own self and value the expression of life that you are created to be?

 

You cannot add value to yourself because you are essentially beyond value.  What you can do, and what most everyone is doing, is hiding that value that you already are and substituting it for something other.  This substitute is called the ego.  This is the separate sense of self that is added to in order to make something of itself of value.  What is the universal value or values that you would live and be remembered for.?  In choosing to commit to this, or these universal values, you then align yourself with the Universe the flows through you.  You align yourself with the creative force of life.  This alignment with universal values is part of that stage of personal and spiritual development referred to as the stage of vision/logic in the map of consciousness outlined by Jim Marion in his book Putting on the Mind of Christ.

 

 

At lower levels of consciousness the value system that is subscribed to tends not to be universal, but as we see in places were there is conflict, is focused on tribal loyalty or on the larger tribe called the nation state.  Alignment with universal values begins at a stage of personal and spiritual development were one’s awareness begins to be focused more on the connection to the experience of Oneness rather than on the limitation of a sense of separateness we call the ego.  Alignment with core values means that you have a sense of what is to be revealed from core of human existence.  This core is not simply a belief but arises from a direct revelation of your essential Self.  This universe is not a collection of separate forms.  It is essentially a sacred unity.  The separate forms (you and I) are simply an expression of this unity.  Lao Tzu said this beautifully when he said.

 

Thus, the sage keeps himself in no-action (wu-wei),
He teaches his wisdom without words.
The Ten Thousand Things rise and fall.
Tao “creates” everything without possessing,
Accomplishes with no claim,
Thus, no adherence, no vanish.

 

This invitation to come into  alignment with universal forces invite integrity, healing and miracle and is not simply a cerebral exercise.  It is practical engagement with such universal practices such as mediation, prayer and contemplation.  This are universal practices that, not so much add value, but reveal the value of who you truly are.  If your values are those that align you with the idea of the tribe, the nation State then this alignment will create opposition within you became you are aligned with an aspect of separateness.  There is nothing wrong with having a pride in your belonging to a tribe, or nation State.  This, however, is not universality and cannot lead to the living of universal values and the deep peace that is inherent within such a practice.

 

 

 

As always, practice kindness to yourself.  Wherever you are is an opportunity to expand but remember that expansion into deeper universal values and stages of spiritual and personal development tends to involve resistance and tension.  When you move beyond the tribe, your family or your religious group then you might be accused of disloyalty.  When you move beyond the limited idea of the nation state then you might be accused of being less than patriotic.  This is part of the the growth involved in personal and spiritual development.   This is part of the reflatory process that is moved from the deep hearts core.  This is the real value that you are and who you are intended to be.

 

Core values, as invited by this writer and storyteller, are universal values.  They invite the arising within you of the integrity of Oneness.  It is this Oneness that allows you the knowing of your true value and your true values.  This is the list of your true hearts desiring – your true Desiderata.  Let me finish with a Celtic blessing of peace that I use on occasion and sing on occasion.

 

Deep peace of the running wave to you.
Deep peace of the flowing air to you.
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you.
Deep peace of the shining stars to you.
Deep peace of the infinite peace to you.

 

This is a beautiful blessing that is written by one who has lived from an alignment with the universal value of peace.  This is one who knows directly the real value of peace as being the connection to the infinite peace that you are and which you are here to reveal and share with others as the core of your very being and your being here.

 

10 Ways to Find Inner Peace

 

Finally here is a video that I love and which inspires me each time I am graced to watch it. Simply double click on the graphic below and enjoy the images, the inspiration and the feelings of empowerment.  If you were to practice the Ten things YOU can to to create peace and are committed to this practice then you WILL get the blessing from above.

 

finding inner peace

 


 

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May the Road Rise Up – Finding Meaning from the High Road

may the road rise up to meet you meaning

 

May the Road Rise up to Meet you.  This is the opening line from one of Ireland’s most common blessings.   This invitation to the rising road  can be taken on many levels.  It is really a blessing about the road that is your journey to the high road of meaning and purpose for your life.  The rising up to meet you is the way in which the travellingthis road of life need not be a struggle and that the resistance to changebe met half way.  May the road rise up to meet you is a blessing that recognises that the road of life is a road that rises up and widens into a high place where you connect the highest potential within you.  What is the highest potential within you?  Wisdom teachers who have travelled this road that rises up to meet you will tell you that it is the road of Love.  This Irish blessing is inviting you to meet this rising road within you by being willing to serve Love’s purpose.

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This is the real blessing.  This road that rises up could be the way in which you make your life’s work an expansion of the highest goodwithin you.  This high road that rises up could be the way in which you find meaning and purpose in your life.  This high road that rises up could be the road you travel to find the core values from which you live and love your one wild and precious life.  This road that rises up to meet you is what the poet Robert Frostreferred to as the road less travelled.  It is the road that is reflected in all stories of who you take the Hero’s Journey into the discovery of who they are and why they are and travel with the intention to give their one wild and precious life to bless themselves and the world

 

This Irish Blessing Line

 

May the road rise up to meet you”

 

is a line full of power.  It empowers the one who learns to use it as a dynamic invitation.  It is not simply a blessing given to someone who is going on a journey in a physical sense.  The blessing invites a far deeper journey of the heart to the high road of Love’s purpose as intended in the life of the traveller.  The beauty of this Irish blessing is that for one moment it takes the focus of yourself and places it on the other.  This way there is for one moment the invitations to a deeper reality that the blessing invites and which is invoked by the one who use these words. “May the road rise before you.”

 

For one moment the two are one, which is the very nature of Love.  The magic of this Irish blessing, as with all blessing, is that it blesses the one who invokes it for the other.  If you are a father of a son, a mother of a daughter, a wife of a husband, would you not be willing to feel real empowerment in cultivating an ability to invoke the power of love to bless those you love The magic of this technique is that as you use it (and you may use it silently) you expand.  You expand into a deeper sense of unity and integrity.  What you bless is returned to you.  Let me suggest that you use this line not in any sense as a way of getting but as a way of giving and a way of giving what is best within you.

 

The road of Love that rises up to meet you is never ending.  It is a way of living life which invites the knowing of life that is forever a life transcending the form called a body.  The practise of blessing is not just for someone who is ordained as a priest or minister.  The practice of blessing is an invitation to a way of being in the world.  This is how the Irish poet W. B. Yeatsstates it when in one moment the road rose up to meet him.

 

My fiftieth year had come and gone,
I sat, a solitary man,
In a crowded London shop,
An open book and empty cup
On the marble table-top.
While on the shop and street I gazed
My body of a sudden blazed;
And twenty minutes more or less
It seemed, so great my happiness,
That I was blessed and could bless.

From Vasillation by W. B. Yeats

 

Wherever you see someone having a hard time, you can bless them silently.  Imagine them moving forward and upward from where they are and see them walking to the higher ground where they will get a wider perspective on their life’s situation and a wider vision of how their life can be.  Through that vision they will see the world in a blessed way.  If you can learn to feel that, and see that for them, without trying to interfere and with heartfelt intention for their life’s journey then you are already blessed.  You are already empowered in a way many people do not value.
The Meaning of may the road rise up to meet you

 

For too many people the road of life is a struggle.  For too many the road that rises up does not go higher but remains on the flatlands that represent an absence of meaning and purpose.  This is only the first line of a number of lines from this great Irish blessing.  Make it a line that you use in your everyday lifeand I think that you will find that your life will become increasingly blessed.  I love especially to use this line anytime I am walking passed a hospital or prison.  You can choose to use it anywhere you wish.  But do make it a practice.  It is the most practical of spiritual exercises.

 

In a way the commitment to using this blessing and this line may challenge you.  If you are committed to invoking the power of Love and inviting the road to rise up and meet you and the other then you will meet resistance along this road. There will be ruts which symbolise the places where you trip yourself up.  There will be holes in the road. These represent the unloved aspects of yourself.  These are those aspects of yourself that need to be repaired and become one in order that you travel higher for you to see a vision that is worthy of the best in you.

 

This line from this Irish blessing ‘may the road rise up to meet you’ is a form of silent prayer.  It can take you to the very top of the road that rises up should you be willing to commit to its practice.  If you are willing to invite its power as a willing servant of Love’s purpose then you will surely  bless this world.  This practice is especially powerful if you have any Irish ancestry because it connects to your lineage; it was the cultural source from which these words were written.  However, the words, while being important, are less so than the heart felt intention behind the words.  Such a conscious practice will begin to open the heart which has numerous benefits for your health.

 

This line of invitation that blesses the other has a very differant focus than the way our culture teaches us to live.  It is a line that costs you nothing other than the willingness to feel empowered.  It is a line available to someone who feels abuindant in the true sense of that word and feels they are blessed enought to invite abundance into the lives of others.  Another great poet, Khalil Gibran, says it this way.

 

You give but little when you give of your possessions.
It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.
For what are your possessions but things you keep and guard for fear you may need them tomorrow?
And tomorrow, what shall tomorrow bring to the overprudent dog burying bones in the trackless sand as he follows the pilgrims to the holy city?
And what is fear of need but need itself?
Is not dread of thirst when your well is full, thirst that is unquenchable?
There are those who give little of the much which they have – and they give it for recognition and their hidden desire makes their gifts unwholesome.
And there are those who have little and give it all.
These are the believers in life and the bounty of life, and their coffer is never empty.
There are those who give with joy, and that joy is their reward.

Speak to us of Giving from the Prophet by Khalil Gibran

 

This line ‘”May the road rise up to meet you” allows you to give in a very simple but empowering way.  Do the practice without looking for results but do it as a practice.  It is a true antidote to any form of meanspiritedness. It is an antidote to worry and anxiety.   It is a line that will align you with the very heart of existancein  knowing that you are on the journey to creating higher forms of Love.  I hope you see that this blessing is not simply about the high roads of Ireland but is an invitation to you to take the high road of vision to find the meaning of your life as it is intended to be and is intended as blessing in the world.

 

Here is the May the Road Rise Up to Meet you Irish Blessing in full.

 

 

May the road rise up to meet you

May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.

 

 

Finally here is a combination of gentle Celtic guitar with some beautiful photography and Irish prayers and blessings.

 

 

May the road rise up to meet you and if ever you are blessed to visit what Yeats called the Holy Land of Ireland look up this Irish writer and storyteller.  For a personal and spiritual invitation from the power of Irelands Heritage why not download a podcast based on the power of the poetry of the Irish poet W. B. Yeats here.  Or have a look at the ebook An Irish Heritage which takes May the Road Rise up to Meet you and invites you into the full meaning of this wonderful Irish Blessing together with songs, poems and stories from An Irish Heritage.

 


 

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